I have decided that for me, social media is something I need to step back from. It is necessary though to connect with customers for our farm and to stay connected to some homeschool pages that I run.
How I used facebook:
I used it as a way to get social interaction with adults. I am home all day with 5 kids and and husband who works long hours and goes out of town monthly. So, for me it was a way to maintain sanity and have adult conversations.
Something changed over the years on facebook, or maybe I changed. I started to find myself itching to check my newsfeed more and more often ( like an addict looking for a quick fix of happy) I found myself not getting any "happy" from it.
I started to find my self wishing for more and more of what I do not have.
I started to feel like this cow!
(on one side stuck and wanting to reach the otherside)
It seems that the people I am friends with on facebook post highlights of their seemingly perfect lives. Their awesome husbands, the new stuff they just bought. the great vacations they take, their very perfect lives. I would sit there with chicken poop on my boots in my dirty outdated 1970's house feeling inadequate.
I kept checking facebook,..... spending WAY more time than I ever imagined looking more and more for my "happy" only to find less of it. Ignoring the giggles and joy of the children outside catching dragonflies .A nasty crazy drug addiction.. Facebook, has been my drug addiction and it was getting bad!
So I came up with a way to limit my facebook usage. I have unfollowed all my friends. Yup, every single person so if you do not see me like or comment on something you post it is because I cannot see it. If I want an update on a friend I will need to go to their wall to see it, or just give thenm a call.There is this button on Facebook where you can stay friends but all the posts of your friends will no longer show up in your newsfeed.
So now when I check Facebook all I see are the posts from private groups I am in.
This has been my happy compromise.
Now on to living life instead of watching everyone else live theirs.